living with lonelinessSunday, December 12, 2010Atishay Jain
Life is what we say a game, always when we play someone lose it and someone wins. Billions of people live on earth. Every second as many thoughts take birth and dissolve, even as beings come and go. There is process in life: to come and to leave. Have you ever seen any wave in the ocean that stays still and the answer is no. It comes and goes. Thoughts also come and go, as well reactions, friends, pals everything in life comes and goes.
Considering the transitory nature of life, it makes sense to not cling to things. And why are we serious? I always try to solve this common problem of everyone’s life that is aloneness. Even if something happens that helps us, that bring us prosperity, we think negative and we refuse it. We are unable to see the difference a diamond and mere stone.
What causes you pain often turns out to be the most beautiful blessing of your life. If any source gives you pain, feel gratitude for that. For suffering creates the opportunity for change. Sometimes we need pressure and pain to make us change for the better. When a sculptor takes a stone, he removes all the unwanted parts and discovers the figure in that stone. Pain and pressure in the life are processes that helps remove all unwanted from our lives and realise our true Self.
Keep alive your aloneness. We came for one and we have to become one. One is alone; alone means one. The highest possibilities of life can come in aloneness. We should feel gratitude if something or someone gives us the experience of aloneness. Only when we are alone, are we able to understand ourselves, to know who we are, to become aware of ourselves, to see the value of our lives. But we are always afraid of aloneness. Nobody wants to be alone, to be single; we want to become two, three or more. When we live with this and the seed of aloneness gives you love, peace, harmony, joy, bliss, everything.
But we have to hold this aloneness with all the patience. Remember that we are blessed with divine grace if aloneness comes in to your life, because this comes to very few people. This world is so strange that it always keeps us involved, always busy. So keep your aloneness and play the game of life with that. Life is so beautiful just try to live it with yourself you will really feel cherish.