How to Love Yourself | How to Love Myself | How do I Love MeTuesday, January 10, 2012Atishay Jain
Let me count those ways that will help to answer such questions.
I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love. It is true saying :
To love yourself it is very absolutely essential to be selfish and to act less social. 90% of the people are hurts from someone else at least one’s in life. So, if you are hurt from somebody then we feel to say No to Life. But life is not end at the moment. We are given a very beauty life with very nice option to get love from you yourself. Yeah It is not so hard as it sounds, trust me you can love yourself if you think about what you like in life beside your love. Do complete your dream, your expectations, and your passion. Mind not to make your passion, your dream to someone whom you love the most, it decreases the stamina to love you yourself. So if you want to love yourself then start your life with fun, joy and work that you like that gives you happiness.
This was a surprise to me then as I would have thought I’d be an expert on love and relationships by then. After all, as I recalled, in my old days, I have spent much time looking for the best spouse or romantic partner. But I soon realized that my search was meant to fill the void or emptiness I had inside. Finding a good relationship with myself seemed to be an even harder task! However, as things turned out, I found myself failing miserably in my early relationships because I had insufficient or little self love.
The key to make decisions is you yourself nobody else will make the decisions of your life. It is easier in theory than in practice, but not so hard that you can’t do it. So at least you should give a try.